A worthy memorial is our only way to show a lost loved one of our love when the person departs physically forever to us. To show our lasting love and appreciation to our departed loved ones, we can build for them a simple headstone with a simple message or build them an exquitiste kerb set with dressy headstones.
Aside from the common lawn memorial, others would have a kerb set memorial built for their lost loved ones. Around the burial plot is where you can place a kerb set which is a stone border. You either fill up the center area with earth or with stone chippings, of which a number of colors are available.
Religious restrictions in the past discouraged cremation, however today, these have relaxed considerably and many people are now opting for cremation. Nowadays, several people dislike the idea of their body to slowly rot beneath the earth, therefore, cremation is found to be an easy and fast manner of getting rid of their empty body. With cremation, the funeral proceedings also become more simple, and it is a fact that many people would prefer to leave simply this worldly existence of ours.
There is a problem though that cremation would pose a problem when you want visit a loved one, as compared to visiting a grave and offering flowers there for example. This concern is solved today since many memorials are now available for bodies that are cremated. Some people may opt scattering their remains, but others would still bury the remains in cremation plots. These cremation plots are less costly than a burial ground and takes much lesser area, and it answers the place of where you will visit your loved one. .
There are now various choices for the memorial of your lost loved one, from plaques to cremation headstones to kerb sets. In the case of headstones, there are various colors and shapes available like heart shaped, rectangular shapes, and the material is usually granite. If you want a unique shape, you can have it done, and add some motifs and beautiful images printed on it with your personal message. Furthermore, there are headstones with flower holders on it.
Kerb sets for cremation are also available with several choices, and these are pretty and not as big as those used on burial grounds. With cremation plaques, these can be elaborately done or simple, depending on how you want it to be. We must show respect to people’s own choices, and whatever it is, it should not get in the way on how and in what manner we want to build a memorial for our lost loved ones.